Are You Really Paying Attention To Your Body?

I worked with a woman the other day who
came in with pain in her pelvic region
(her pubic bone to be exact). It had been
nagging her for 9 months and she's now
6 months pregnant.

She'd been treated by a number of people
who were all trying to reduce the pain with
various approaches but nothing had worked.
The pain wasn't going away.

I instructed her to locate the epicenter of the
pain with her fingertips and focus her attention
there. I asked her what it felt like. "It hurts!" she
groaned. I asked her to notice where the borders
of the pain were. She described a spherical region
around where she was touching.

Then I asked her to imagine the borders of the
pain expanding and spreading out so instead of
remaining concentrated at a specific point it
could become more diffuse. She did this and said
that she could feel energy beginning to move through
her pelvis.

I asked her "If you allowed this energy to fill your entire
body instead of keeping it bound in your pelvis, what
message would it carry to the rest of your cells?"
I added, "Since pain means pay attention, something
needs to change, what do you think you're supposed
to be paying attention to that you've ignored enough to
now need pain to get you to focus on it?"

She continued to hold the point and her eyes welled up
with tears, "I feel it" she said.

"This part is telling me to stop walking three miles a day
and just take a casual stroll around the block instead.
It wants me to get support rather than try to do it all myself.
It wants me to stop carrying my youngest son so much
because he's too heavy and it's hurting me." She
continued on with a number of other things as well.

As she received the message that the pain held within it,
the pain began to disappear. Her pubic bone suddenly
was no longer something to fix and the pain was no longer
a thing to take away or eradicate. Her body relaxed and the
color came back to her face along with a smile. "I'm going
to listen to this part of me from now on" she said.
"There's wisdom there."

Think about times when you have pain. What do you do? Do
you immediately try to make it go away? What if you put your
hands on the area of pain, focused there and sought to
discover what that part really wanted rather than cursed it for
being a nuisance instead? Then, what if you actually changed
your behavior to comply with what that part wanted?

Dr. John

Stop Waiting...

What if...

Every time you remember your past you
focus on the gifts that those experiences
brought you, rather than on the pain that
they caused you?

What if...

You trust in the gift of the present moment
rather than focus on the uncertainty of the
future?

What if...

You trust that you are guided into relationships
to grow and evolve, rather than focus on all of
the times that you've been betrayed or wronged?

What if...

You decide to be totally authentic in every moment
rather than try to be the person you "should" be to fit
in and be accepted?

What if...

You choose to express your passion and freely
express your true emotions rather than live
a logical and practical life where you feel dead
inside?

What if...

You accept that you always have the resources you
need inside when you need them, rather than focus on
what's lacking on the outside or why the circumstances
don't allow you to be, have or do something?

Your focus is powerful beyond measure.

You are so blessed. Consider that much of the world's
population lives on under $2 a day. What are you
focusing on? Is it on what you're not getting, what's
missing in your life, or why things are happening "to" you?

Where is your energy going? Are you helping others?
Are you contributing your gifts? Look around you. Our
world needs you. Stop waiting.

Dr. John

How To Improve Your "Luck"...

Here are some tips to improve your luck
(excerpt from Is Effort a Myth by Seth Godin):

1. Delete 120 minutes a day of 'spare time'
from your life. This can include TV, reading
the newspaper, commuting, wasting time in
social networks and meetings. Up to you.

2. Spend the 120 minutes doing this instead:

• Exercise for thirty minutes.
• Read relevant non-fiction (trade magazines,
• journals, business books, blogs, etc.)
• Send three thank you notes.
• Learn new digital techniques (spreadsheet
  
• macros, Firefox shortcuts, productivity tools,
  
• graphic design, html coding)
• Volunteer.
• Blog for five minutes about something
  
• you learned.
• Give a speech once a month
  
• about something you don't currently
  
• know a lot about.

3. Spend at least one weekend day doing
absolutely nothing but being with people you
love.

4. Only spend money, for one year, on things
you absolutely need to get by. Save the rest,
relentlessly.

If you somehow pulled this off, then six months
from now, you would be the fittest, best rested,
most intelligent, best funded and motivated person
in your office or your field.

You would know how to do things other people
don't, you'd have a wider network and you'd be
more focused.

It's entirely possible that this won't be sufficient,
and you will continue to need better luck. But it's
a lot more likely you'll get lucky, I bet.

I think Seth makes a good point. What do you think?

Stay positive. Don't listen to too much NPR or
watch too much news right now. Stock prices
might be falling but the sky is not. Focus on what
you can do something about instead of what you
can't control.

Dr. John

How To Thrive During All The Financial Collapses...

Whether you've seen your stock portfolio
plummet, your business drop off, or a friend
or family member lose their job (or even worse
their house) -- you can honestly, successfully,
immediately and massively thrive during the
financial and economic crisis we're dealing
with today.

How? It all depends on where you choose to
put your focus and what actions you decide to
take in your life.

Could it really be that simple?

Did you know that there were more millionaires
created during the Great Depression than in any
other era in US history? Some people have always
thrived during even the most challenging times. Are
you one of them?

Don't get caught up in all of the fear and panic ---
Choose to focus on all of the opportunities around
you instead.

The worst thing that you can possibly do is buy
into the hype --- whether it's true or not. Is it
harder to get a loan right now? You bet. Is it
tougher to grow a business right now? Yep.

Is it more challenging to stay open and trusting
and resourceful so that you can can see opportunities
where others only see roadblocks right now?
Of course.

Most people are contracting. They're focusing on
exactly what it is they're most afraid of, and putting
their physiology right into the least resourceful state ---
the posture, breathing, emotions and movement of
overwhelm and survival.

When you're in survival, you have tunnel vision. Your
focus is on just getting through the day. Your creativity,
energy and vitality is squelched. Your passion is lost
because your higher brain isn't even receiving adequate
blood flow and oxygen to support a more expanded
perspective.

The truth is everybody is having to work smarter
right now if they're going to make it through this
economic situation in good shape. They're going
to have to expand their mind and draw upon their
core gifts and talents.

Are you working smarter or are you biting your nails
and wondering what's going to happen "to" you?

Many people are going to be painfully and brutally
affected by these trying times. Their health is going
to suffer the serious consequences of stress hormones
being pumped continuously through their bloodstream.

But, you can escape unscathed.

You can unhook from the stress and refocus your
attention and awareness on "what's working" in
your body, in your life, in our world. There are many
ways to do this and I'll be bringing them to you in the
One Minute Wellness Modules regularly.

But the very best way to do it that I know of is through
Network Care. If you haven't been in for an entrainment
or SRI for a while, then now would be a very good time
to give Michelle a call (475-2448 if you're near your phone).

Release the tension from your body, unhook from the
stress and fire up your creativity and passion so that
you can be sure to see the unlimited opportunities that
are available all around you.

Warmly, Dr. John